"It'll happen when you stop thinking about it."
Ok great advice my biggest desire to have another baby but I guess I should just erase that from my mind. Simple! Not! When I am not thinking about Emma (and even sometimes when thinking about her) I am thinking about wanting a baby. How can you take something that your whole body and souls craves and just erase it from your memory? You can't! So stop telling me to stop thinking about it!
"Stop trying and you will have one."
Ok again back to stop thinking about it. My husband and I want another so bad! We have been trying for 7 months! How in the flip are we supposed to stop trying and stop thinking?
"Enjoy trying..."
Do you really think I am just laying there hating every moment of trying? Um no! I love being ummmm intimate with my husband and am enjoying it but thanks for making me feel bad in bed.
"I had no problem getting pregnant"
Yeah thanks for rubbing it in. Neither did I the first time! Things can happen to change that. You rubbing in how fertile you are only makes you come across as insensitive to what I am feeling and makes you seem like you are flaunting your champion baby making skills. Congrats you already have a baby do you want a medal too?
"Are you pregnant yet?" Or "when do you want to have a second?"
I will tell you when and if I ever get pregnant you asking me every month rubs my failure in my face more. If we aren't close enough to talk daily and so you don't know my struggle to get pregnant keep your mouth shut and I will tell you when the blessed day arrives!
Sorry to be so crabby but between pms, heartbreak and frustration you get this.
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